Stop begging for what you don't want
How you belief creates what kind of life you have. Mahatma Guandi explained this perfectly:
“Your beliefs become your thoughts.
Your thoughts become your words.
Your words become your actions.
Your actions become your habits.
Your habits become your values.
Your values become your destiny."
Sad news is, we love giving energy to what we do not believe. Especially when we are losing our confidence, trust and faith on ourselves. We start getting fear in uncertainties and relying on our limited strengths. We lean towards the ego mind, put ourselves in the so called ‘comfort zone’ until one day, you discover you are looping the same pattern again and start blaming “why my life sucks?”. Your life has no problem, you are the only reason on creating all these complaints and desiring for hell.
How to create the life you love?
1. Recognise your thought and pause
“Why there’s no taxi at all ?!”
Let me use this common example to help you understand the whole thing easily. Behind this saying, your thought actually is “I can’t get a taxi”. When you place these thoughts on what you do not want, you already start acting upon them and requesting more of what you do not want to show up in your life. Means you can never get a taxi.
Practice to have the awareness to catch your thought fast. Recognise if you are sending a wrong belief again. Take a pause, stop everything and do not act on it. Use your breath to help you consciously choose not entertaining any one of the doubting feelings and negative energy.