The best gift you can give is yourself

Ever thought of the relationship with your dad dictates how your life is?

In every parent-child relationship, parent is the role model for the child. Children observes, copies their behaviours, feelings and being in their lives. This relationship directly affects the attachment, security, emotions of the children in adulthood. The healthier the relationship is, the easier the child experiences a strong close relationship with different people when grown up. Vice versa, a detached relationship can bring detachment behaviour, lack of trust, anxiety or depression to one and affect their love lives seriously.

the best gift you can give is yourself

by chris chambers

I am lucky I have a very strong relationship with my dad now. I share everything with him and so does he. Worries, loneliness, struggles sadness, sickness or even death, nothing we cannot talk about. He’s my life coach, my soulmate and my love. People said, “it’s such a blessing you can have a cool relationship with your dad.” The truth is, our relationship has never been good when I was young. My dad works day and night which we barely talked. I even think he is not a good dad. He is cold, neglect my mom’s feeling and not caring to me at all. I got many judgement, resentment towards him.

"It’s never too late to have a happy childhood.” Tom Robbin

Thanks universe gives us a beautiful gift. Allow me to cultivate a better relationship with him even now I am an adult. And I witness when our relationship changes, my life changes. I’m healthier, happier and I attract more and more great relationship in my life.

In this father’s day, I would like to share this gift to you and your dad. This is a gift does not carry a form yet he can feel. A gift works from your heart. Find a quiet place, follow the below steps, read or listen to my audio guide and start creating a better relationship with your dad.

- Audio guide by jen -​

- Transcript -

Sit up tall and straight on your seat, close your eyes and focus on your breath. Breathe into the heart. Breathe into the intention on creating a better relationship with your dad.