How often do you fall deep in love with someone? When you are in this love, how certain do you know it is real? In romance, friendship, soulmate, family or other form of love relationship, it is too often we fall into the blind spot and “think” we met the true love but it is not. How can we be conscious and know if our love is real? These are the 3 check-in. 1. It is never about you “I love you if you do the things I love with me” “I love you if you understand how I feel” “